Tuesday, September 29, 2015

Intimacy Wants To, Not Has To

Obedience is easy when you're in passionate love. In fact, we don't even think of it as “obedience.” We so want to please our lover that anything we even get the inkling they would like we are totally ready to do. And more. “Really? That's all you want? You can have more. I can do more.”

We invent ways to please them, to surprise them with what we did, just to see them smile. If what they want us to do is also actually good for us, that's a bonus. We'd have done it anyway.

That's the way our morality should be with God. If we obey his laws and follows his ways from a place of intimacy, deep lover-passion, it's not burdensome, which it's not anyway because his laws are good for us. Unless we're deceived, then it can be burdensome.

But in the truth of his intimacy, it's a delight. Pleasing him brings us closer to him, our lover. And we're disappointed we can't do more, because we want to be even closer to him.

It's not about “earning” closeness to him, or doing good to get close. It's about doing good because we are already so close. Out of love, not obligation. It's a world of difference in perspective.

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